Step 3 - is the level readjustment stage - in the development process. It comes about through a mixture of a need for a change in direction in life but moreso, the acceptance of the worst possible reality, in order to bring about the process of healing and forgiving others - rather than, as in the former stage, the need to protect and nourish yourself, which is why we shouldn't rely too much on other people's support in that stage.
In the first two stages, however - the mind is formulated - through choice and input, which, if you like, becomes a process of trial and error that you get a personal feel for. By the end of step 2 - which may last anything up to 12 years or more - this "feeling" becomes instinctive and it is at the very apex of this journey that you may request the physical reality of your spiritual odyssey to become the next step. This process is a path of physical development, where knowledge becomes absolute and where we engineer ourselves as hyper - developed, super intelligent human beings. However often our persuasive powers are guided by our passions. This therefore is the process of refinement required to become acceptable at all levels - but also, a developed entrepreneur on an idea or system that by now you have taken steps to make your own. In other words, this is your personal privatisation stage. This is under the premise that we have already stayed true to our truthful and personable or original element and have not lost our ability to make things happen for others.
There is often guidance provided but this is only there to keep your originality secure and to ensure that you are prepared to work hard on your own scheme. This is all the more available in conjunction with the necessity to hold on to what we love and cherish most and also as a requirement to hold on to our own identity and our own "liquid property" - our spiritual skills and power that makes us who we are and the information about ourselves that we have learnt through the previous steps. This must, however be done in a way that means, our focus and energy is on someone else and not lost in the inability to stand up for yourself. The journey goes on, as you see fit - everyone is an individual at this level - and originality, strength of character and strong moral background will see you through to the next step. You will find however that a looser obedience to the strong moral code of step 2 is necessary, in order to balance your hard work with the process of forgiving others.